I want to know if my boyfriend is taking me for granted. "Bob" is 30 years old and I'm 28. We've been together for four years and have been living together for a little over 2 1/2 years. "Bob" is a ... [ Read More ]
My Partner Gave Me a Box of Cheap Chocolates, Not into me anymore?
My partner of 12 years bought me a box of cheap chocolates for my 52nd birthday. he got me the same thing last year. I'd be less upset if it was all he could afford, but he can do better. And he did ... [ Read More ]
We Live Together, We Have Twins. Why Won’t He Marry Me?
Hi Alison and Tony: I'm writing about my boyfriend Bill. We have been together since high school and now we're both 25 and the parents of twin girls. When we first started dating years ago he always ... [ Read More ]
His Ex Wife Spent Tons of His Money But He Doesn’t Spend ANY on ME!
I've been living with my fiance for a couple of years but we still haven't set a wedding date. My issue is that he buys me inexpensive little things for my birthday, Christmas, Valentines Day but ... [ Read More ]
He wants me to get rid of my cat because she doesn’t help with the bills..WTF?!
I raised my cat Muffin since he was a little kitten. Now she's a few years old and my faithful companion. A few years ago my ex-boyfriend and I fought over who would get custody of Muffin, and ... [ Read More ]
My Parents Hate My Boyfriend & He Hates Them!
I am a single mom of 2 young children under the age of 6. I'm in my late 30's. My boyfriend is a single dad with 2 kids close to the ages of my kids. He is 37. We live 3 hours away but are ... [ Read More ]
We Live Together. We’re Engaged, So Why Won’t His Family Accept Me
His Family Won't Accept Me! Hi Alison and Tony. I live with my fiance. We've been engaged for 8 years. However, his family won't have anything to do with me because my fiance's wife was close ... [ Read More ]
My Guy Won’t Spend Any Time With Me, Why Not?
Hi Alison & Tony (Leather and Lace): My husband Brian and I have been married for 7 years now. We got married young and we're in our mid 20's. But while I love having sex and watching ... [ Read More ]
Does my Boyfriend have Real Relationship Issues, Or Is He just a Selfish Jerk?
I love your advice and your site! I have emotional issues from abusive I suffered at home as a child. But my boyfriend Johnny has what he calls social anxiety. I am demonstrative and physical and ... [ Read More ]
We Are Engaged But Now Things Aren’t Certain How Can I Save Us?
Dear Alison & Tony: Here's the situation: Sarah and I got engaged but now things are uncertain. My fiance and I met in college. After we graduated, which was about 4 years ago, we bought some ... [ Read More ]