disabled Archives - Leather and Lace Advice

I met someone I like but I’m avoiding him because I have a secret!

March 27, 2015 By: aandt1 Comment

I was born without upper limbs (no arms or hands), but I wear braces that look so real a lot of people think they are real, until and unless I tell them and show them that they aren't. Mostly, this ... [ Read More ]

Should I Disclose My Disability On A Dating Site?

April 17, 2014 By: aandt3 Comments

Should I disclose my disability on a dating site? That's my dilemma. Leather and Lace advice, I really need your help. I've been online for about 6 months and haven't had a lot of dates, but I did ... [ Read More ]

I’m in a wheelchair but I’m just disabled, I’m not dead. Help me find love

August 2, 2013 By: aandt12 Comments

I'm Disabled, Not Dead! (Help Me Find Love) Dear Alison and Tony: I just don’t know what to do anymore. I'm a woman in a wheelchair. Guys look at me and see right through me as if I’m not even ... [ Read More ]