Sandra wrote to us: I've been dating Teddy for a year now. He is 35 and I'm in my mid-twenties. I have always dated "older" so this isn't a problem for me. What is a problem is how Teddy wants to be ... [ Read More ]
He Won’t Show Us Together or Tag Me on Social Media
Alison and Tony, I've been in a relationship with "Bob" for 8 months. I feel that he was unfaithful, at least online, as we wouldn't post anything about us on social media. He wouldn't even ... [ Read More ]
My Parents Hate My Boyfriend & He Hates Them!
I am a single mom of 2 young children under the age of 6. I'm in my late 30's. My boyfriend is a single dad with 2 kids close to the ages of my kids. He is 37. We live 3 hours away but are ... [ Read More ]
Should We Invite Another Man to Join Us in Bed?
I've always had a fantasy of sharing my wife with another man. We're in our mid 50's and we have been married a long time. I admit that in the past I cheated on my wife and when she found out she was ... [ Read More ]
We Live Together. We’re Engaged, So Why Won’t His Family Accept Me
His Family Won't Accept Me! Hi Alison and Tony. I live with my fiance. We've been engaged for 8 years. However, his family won't have anything to do with me because my fiance's wife was close ... [ Read More ]
WHAT DOES TRUE LOVE MEAN TO YOU? #ValentinesDay, #Love, #relationships
On Valentines Day we always offer a new version of our original feature "What Does True Love Mean to You?" Love takes so many forms! We hope you'll enjoy our view of what true love means to us, ... [ Read More ]
My Guy Won’t Spend Any Time With Me, Why Not?
Hi Alison & Tony (Leather and Lace): My husband Brian and I have been married for 7 years now. We got married young and we're in our mid 20's. But while I love having sex and watching ... [ Read More ]
My Girlfriend is Giving Holiday Gifts to Others But Not To ME!
Hi Alison & Tony: My girlfriend and I have been dating for only about 4 months and we have a long distance relationship, I want this to be a serious relationship, so for the holidays I am going ... [ Read More ]
Question: How Can A Couple Communicate If One Partner Won’t Talk?
My partner and I agree on many things. But when we are deadlocked on something I feel we need to discuss it until we come to a mutually reasonable conclusion. My partner is just the opposite. He ... [ Read More ]
Why Are Some People So Cheap They Can’t Even Give a Gift?
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. He has been (sort of) generous in terms of treating me to a meal once in a while but I do it too. And, I have bought him many gifts! My issue is that my ... [ Read More ]