I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. He has been (sort of) generous in terms of treating me to a meal once in a while but I do it too. And, I have bought him many gifts! My issue is that my ... [ Read More ]
Our Life Is Dull, She’s Not Into My Fantasies. Is She Still Into ME?
Leather and Lace Answer Your Question! My wife and I have been married 18 years. Our day to day life is ok, dull and routine I guess. The issue is that I often fantasize about my wife ... [ Read More ]
I Sexted But It Wasn’t Serious, So Why Can’t He Forgive Me???
I Made A Stupid Mistake and Sexted. Now, He Won't Forgive Me! I am married with a young daughter and my marriage was getting kind of boring. Recently I connected with an old boyfriend through ... [ Read More ]
Our Sex Life Was So HOT Now, It’s So NOT: She Won’t’ Even Kiss Me!
Our Sex Life Was So HOT. Now, It's So NOT: She Won't Even Kiss Me! My wife and I have been together more than 25 years. Our sex life was so hot for the first decade of our relationship and we had ... [ Read More ]
If He Doesn’t Get a Job, Should I Leave Him?
Hi Leather and Lace Advice: Almost immediately after we moved in together just over a year ago, my boyfriend’s company closed. He’s been unemployed ever since. It wasn’t his fault, but now he just ... [ Read More ]
He won’t communicate and he’s distant. It’s just little things but I’m worried.
Hi Alison and Tony: I love your advice. Now I’m writing because I don’t’ know what to do. I’ve been seeing Thom for over two years. We aren’t living together as we are both legally separated but have ... [ Read More ]
He’s So Vanilla, But I’m A SPICE Girl
I'm currently engaged to a great guy, Everything is fine except for our love life. He’s very vanilla in the bedroom and I want more spice. I am hoping for: “Dominate me Sir!” I've asked him to expand ... [ Read More ]
Does my Boyfriend have Real Relationship Issues, Or Is He just a Selfish Jerk?
I love your advice and your site! I have emotional issues from abusive I suffered at home as a child. But my boyfriend Johnny has what he calls social anxiety. I am demonstrative and physical and ... [ Read More ]
My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want to Do Anything, Anymore What’s Wrong With Him?
My Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Do Anything, Anymore What's Wrong With Him? Leather and Lace Advice received three letters from readers that raise similar issues, that of partners who used to be "into ... [ Read More ]
We Are Engaged But Now Things Aren’t Certain How Can I Save Us?
Dear Alison & Tony: Here's the situation: Sarah and I got engaged but now things are uncertain. My fiance and I met in college. After we graduated, which was about 4 years ago, we bought some ... [ Read More ]
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